What Is The Hotwife Lifestyle?
The trend of hotwife or hotwifing is growing fast! In fact it’s growing at a faster rate than other lifestyle options such as swinging or swapping. It’s a choice that not only benefits the woman in the relationship, but also the man. So what IS the hotwife lifestyle?
There’s some variations of hotwife. There’s cuckold for the men, Vixen for the wife, Stag for the man and etc. And each of these have their own nuances, fantasies and desires. But to just answer the basic question of what a hotwife lifestyle is, let’s just focus on the basics, especially if you new to the lifetsyle or thinking about it.
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The basics of being or having a hotwife are that the women or “wife” in the relationship is allowed or encouraged to have sexual relations with other men.
This arrangement can satisy both individuals in the relationship. For the hotwife, she can be sexually satisfied by being with other men. For the “husband” he too can be sexually aroused at the thought of his wife having sex with other men.
The hotwife can also fulfill sexual satisfaction and arousal by being the object of desire for other men. There’s a lot of power in feeling desired or wanted by other men. The thought of having sex and living out sexual fantasies can benefit the hotwife, especially when her sex life isn’t satisfying her needs. Imagine what it feels like to have the confidence that hotwives get hearing about their body, looks and overall sexiness.
There’s also the process of or “foreplay” of talking to the other men, getting ready for her dates, the sex that’s invloved and then discussing that with her man.
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For the man who has a hotwife, his sexual desires are lived out by proxy through his wife. The thought that he’s married to a women who other man find sexually attractive. Watching and hearing his wife talk to other men, flirt, hear about the sex and so on.
This isn’t necessarily a submissive relationship like a cuckold husband, and in many cases the husband may not be present during the dates and sex. He will simply get pleasure in knowing about it and hearing the details afterward. After all, men like to be associated with women who are desirable and wanted by other men, almost like a status symbol.
The benefits of living the hotwife lifestyle for both in the relatioship include deeper intimacy, a stronger connection, trust, and obviously sexual arousal from discussing all the details with eachother.
Living the hotwife lifestyle doesn’t have to involve sex with other men. There’s a growing trend on Twitter and Onlyfans that’s more of a hotwife voyeruristic angle where men allow their wives to show off their body, flirt and chat with other men, swap sexy pics etc. Sometimes, just the thought of hotwifing and not actually having sex is enough of a turn on and arousal for the wife and husband.
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Communication is key. Just like in anyof the other lifestyles, couples need to openly discuss and hash out ground rules and expectations. Talk to each other about your desires, why do you want to be a hotwife, and why does the husband want his wife to be a hotwife. This is not the time to hold back and be shy about your kinks and what turns you on.
Do NOT try living the hotwife lifestyle to “fix” a relationship. Too often jealousy, insecurities and emotions will erode a broken relationship. Becoming a hotwife is not a quick fix or a hall pass. A strong foundation in a relationship is crucial for hotwifing, and this cannot be emphazied enough.
Another point to mention is that hotwifing should not be forced. If either person in the relationship is hesitant, then more discussions should be had. Living a hotwife lifestyle should benefit BOTH OF YOU, and not be self serving for one.
If you openly talk about what you both want out of a hotwife marriage and trust each other in every aspect, and are looking to spice things up and possibly get better sexual satisfaction as well as confidence, then living the hotwife lifestyle just may be the taboo you need!
Originally published at https://www.friskycouple.com on October 7, 2020.
