The Benefits Of Being A Hotwife

Frisky Couple
4 min readSep 19, 2020

“Hot wife” is a term that can apply to any woman whose husband feels she is hot enough to attract other men, but more specifically, in the lifestyle world, it means that the husband desires some level of interaction between his wife and another man.

Having a is a fantasy that many couples in the lifestyle have. We personally aren’t into that aspect of swinging, since my wife and I are into other females and couples, and we don’t play solo. But, research has shown that many men fantasize about watching their woman engaged in some degree of sexual activity with another man.

I can see the intrigue though of having a woman who is sexually desired by a lot of men, and the confidence boost for both from it. Knowing that you are with another woman who is desired, and for the woman to know that she is desired too.

So with that said, here are a few benefits of having a hotwife. And if you’re looking to add some extra hotness to your hotwifing, check out our . full of kinky toys and accessories.

As a man, you may feel that you have the hottest woman on earth, and it’s every man’s desire to have a woman who is another man’s dream. Hotwifing gives men the perfect chance to appreciate how beautiful and desirable his woman is, which increases both his love and respect for her.

The wife gets the freedom to enjoy the company of the opposite sex. Many married women would like to enjoy the company of men other than their husbands, but they don’t get that chance. When a man allows his woman to be in the company of other men, she can enjoy that fresh kind of intimacy.

The Hotwife lifestyle reduces the husband’s jealousy.

Jealousy is one of the major reasons many relationships fail and insecurity is a contributing factor in many disagreements and breakups. Hotwifing can help rid the man of his feelings of jealousy, and when he gives his wife the freedom to be who she wants to be, she knows her husband has her best interests at heart, which helps her trust him more. Especially knowing that his wife can still be with other men, but come back to him.

Being a hotwife has to be a mutual decision, and not just for the kinks and pleasures of one.

Relationships are built on trust and communication. If you want to have a fulfilling relationship, couples need to open up a line of communication understand each other and also give each other the chance and freedom to be yourselves. Communication is really the foundation for any swinger couple of subset of the lifestyle.

Before a couple begins to dive into actual hotwifing, they both need to agree they each really want to do this. My wife’s previous marriage was the opposite of this. It was one of the reasons why she decided to leave the lifestyle until we met. In her previous relationship, she felt forced into being a hotwife. Being a hotwife has to be a mutual decision, and not just for the kinks and pleasures of one. This kind of conversation increases trust and communication between the couple and bring them closer together.

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Hotwifing gives women a chance to express themselves. When a woman knows that she has the support of her man to do whatever she desires, she feels great about herself, which helps to boost her own self-confidence. I can only imagine what that confidence feels like knowing that you are always desired and can pick and choose at will.

Hotwifing gives both the man and woman in a couple the perfect chance to gain knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection.

Hotwifing gives both the man and woman in a couple the perfect chance to gain knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically deepen a couple’s bond. Intimacy and trust go hand in hand with being a hotwife.

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Being a hotwife can boost sexual satisfaction for the woman and the couple. The woman is able to spend quality time with men she’s sexually interested in, and in some cases satisfy her sexually in ways that her husband may not be able to. As for the man in the hotwife marriage, he may be sexually aroused at the thought of his wife being with another man. The excitement of knowing that other men are aroused be her, and the whole taboo mentality side of it as well.

If you are a hotwife and would like to add any benefits or comments, we’d love to hear from you.

Originally published at https://www.friskycouple.com on September 19, 2020.

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Frisky Couple

We’re just a fun couple who live and experience the swinger lifestyle. We blog about sex, swingers, hotwives and the lifestyle. We operate friskycouple.com