Does your woman orgasm during sex?

Here’s something every straight or bi man should know! Only 25 percent…yep 25 percent of women can consistently orgasm during vaginal intercourse.

Let’s repeat that shocking statistic. Only one-quarter of women orgasm during vaginal intercourse. It doesn’t matter how long sex lasts, the size of the man’s penis, or how the woman feels about the man.

This statistic isn’t some random study or poll, it’s from 33 studies over the past 80 years. History and reliable studies show this shocking and not so prevalent fact.

Only 25 percent of women can consistently orgasm during vaginal intercourse.

About half of women sometimes have orgasms during intercourse. Shockingly ONLY 20 percent seldom or rarely have orgasms during sex. And to add insult to injury, 5 percent of women have never…NEVER had orgasms during sex.

To sum it up, ordinary vaginal sex is statistically not the way women have orgasms.

On the other hand, men achieve orgasm 95% of the time during sex. Seems fair right?

You’ve heard the phrase that men are simple and revolves around physical contact in regards to sex, while the woman’s ability to orgasm is linked to emotions. There may be some truth to that, but we believe the REAL reason why there’s a sex gap when it comes to orgasms is that many men don’t provide women with enough gentle caresses where it counts, the all powerful the clitoris!

Most women experience pleasure during intercourse, but typical ordinary thrusting by the man does not provide sufficient clitoral stimulation to trigger women’s orgasms.

Don’t believe us? Prepared to get schooled: Lesbians reported orgasms in 86 percent of encounters. Meanwhile heterosexual women, achieved orgasms only 65 percent of the time. In other words, women KNOW how to make it work, so listen up guys to these 4 take-aways.

Take-away #1 When men provide gentle, extended oral sex, women’s rates of orgasm approach men’s.

Take-away #2 Penis size doesn’t matter to most women’s sexual satisfaction. If only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during intercourse, then for most women, penis size doesn’t matter. The fact is, any size penis can provide great pleasure to the man it’s attached to. But the key to most women’s erotic pleasure comes not from the penis and intercourse, but from direct clitoral stimulation, using the fingers, palm, tongue, or sex toys.

Take-away #3 Lasting a long time during sex does not matter as much as most men believe. Many men stress out about coming quickly (premature ejaculation). They want to extend intercourse largely because they think it’s crucial to women’s orgasms. But only one-quarter of women are consistently orgasmic during intercourse no matter how long the man lasts.

Take-away #4 You can have sex, without “having” sex. This is especially true for couples over 40. With age, men’s erection capacity declines, and menopausal changes often make intercourse uncomfortable for women, even with a lubricant. Many older couples prefer sex without intercourse: mutual whole-body massage, hand jobs, oral, and toys. Younger lovers might also consider this erotic alternative.

We personally alternate and try different ways to reach orgasm. many times, we don’t even have vaginal sex. It can vary between massage, sensual touch, oral sex, hand jobs, fingering sex toys, mutual masturbation or helping each other masturbate. As a real swingers couple, this is all too familiar and known in the swinger lifestyle as . And after a few play dates only doing soft swap, you become a master at it.

Woman-on-top: The man lies on his back with his legs together. The woman straddles his hips and sits on his erection. To help women have orgasms, he makes a fist and places it on his lower abdomen where their pelvises meet. She presses her clitoris into it. This often provides sufficient direct clitoral touch for orgasm. Or she can reach down and hold his fist on her clitoris, or caress it herself by hand or with a vibrator.

Doggie Style: She’s bent over, or on her hands and knees, or elbows and knees. He stands or kneels behind her. He can reach around and massage her clitoris. Or she can reach between her legs and caress her clitoris, or use a vibrator.

Spooning: Both lovers lie on their sides, her back to his chest. His hands are free to massage her clitoris. Or she can caress herself by hand or with a vibrator.

Of course any sex position that allows some type of clitoral stimulation either by hand, mouth or toy will work. The best part of trying to identify the sex position that works best is experimentation. After all, nothing beats having sex over and over again until both parties are fully satisfied and reach orgasm.

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Originally published at https://www.friskycouple.com on October 13, 2020.