5 Tips If You Want To Try Pegging

Maybe you’ve seen some posts on social media, or watched some porn that involved pegging. Or maybe you’ve always been curious to the idea of ass play.

If pegging is something you’ve never done, the concept can be both intimidating and exciting at the same time. As a couple that does pegging, let us tell you that it’s an experience and pleasure that’s worth trying.

Here are 5 simple tips to start your pegging journey.

Talk about pegging

If the idea of pegging comes up from either the man or the woman and the excitement builds over the thought of some ass play, talk it over.

Find out how much experience he or she has, if any at all. Talk about any concerns on insecurities his desire to be pegged might bring up for you. Some women feel insecure when asked to pegged, believing that they aren’t satisfying their partner. That’s probably not the case. The pleasure men experience from prostate stimulation is simply different than what they get from standard intercourse.

Having these small conversations will make you both more comfortable and happy going in.

Start small

Unless you man has a lot of experience with pegging, you will want to start off with a butt plug, toy (or finger) that is on the smaller size.

Just remember, any toy used for pegging or anal play should be flared base, where it’s wider at the top than where it goes in. Otherwise it will easily just be swallowed by the butt. We both have healthcare degrees…and yes we’ve both seen this in emergency rooms.

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If this is the first time your partner has ever had anything put inside his ass, it’s a dangerous and painful idea to go straight to a full pegging. Just like in weight lifting, you have to start light and train to the next level. This will help prepare him (and his ass) for what’s to come.

It will also give the partner a great anatomy lesson. Using your fingers exploring inside him until you find the prostate and learn to stimulate it will be great knowledge to have when you graduate to full-on pegging.

A great idea is to use your fingers or a toy on him while you are performing oral sex or giving him a hand job. The combination of the two is amazing and the orgasm is on a higher level.

Lube it up, then lube some more…and add some more dabs of lube.

When you are in the heat of the moment it is easy to forget lube. Plus, if your partner seems receptive, you might think he doesn’t NEED lube at all.

When it comes to pegging (or any kind of anal sex) the more lube the better.

The human anus has not one, but TWO sets of sphincters.

There are the sphincters we can see externally, and then a second set deeper inside the anus. Using lube (almost too much lube) makes your initial penetration through both sets of sphincters that much more easy while creating a super hot sense of friction.

Just make sure the kind of lube you have purchased is compatible with your toys. The silicone based lube you have for your own playtime won’t work with your all of your toys. We suggest buying specialty water-based lube to use with toys only.

Be gentle

This can be a totally new feeling and one that can take some getting used to. So go very, very slow and shallow to start and work your way up based on feedback. If your partner tells you to stop, stop IMMEDIATELY. Remember, pegging isn’t about dominance, unless that’s what your partner wants. Your first pegging experience isn’t a scene out of Deliverance, or jail shower room rape scenario. If done slow and steady with lots of lead up, this is often a very enjoyable experience, but everyone is different and you need to listen to your partner.

Post pegging

Anal penetration for a man can be an incredibly sensitive topic and experience. It’s not only physically extreme, it can be a bit of a mind trip for people getting over deep-rooted societal hang-ups, so make sure you take the time after for some love and care. Cuddle, make out, (or leave them alone for a moment, if that’s what they want) whatever helps to ground you both and then talk about your experiences.

Originally published at https://www.friskycouple.com on March 3, 2021.